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you know i had an idea for a post but im totally lost for a thought (what else is new?)
shit i just remembered... someone i know through orkut, just got engaged to her long distance boyfriend.. the thing is, he has THREE years left in school.. why people decide to get married when there are so many other things to wait to complete is beyond me. like, i know i love mike and he loves me and eventually we'll get married, but we both has soo much to do before that happens and so much more to enjoy as being boyfriend & girlfriend to throw the weight of a marriage on it. if you KNOW youll be together, why the rush?? i think thats the problem with why there are soo many divorces. people just rush into that INITIAL feeling, and you just cant. you need to sit back and enjoy the ride, because if you dont, it will overcome you and before you know it, that feeling is gone . and then youre stuck in a marriage youre not really wanting to be in and could wind up pregnant and there be children involved.. i just want to be with him and enjoy being together taking in all that is "us" (such great letters.. why arent they together in the alphabet??). it took me a while to realize this. people are right, you cant go looking for love, it needs to find you. and im pretty sure it has. after everything that happened with dumbfuck and dan, its just nice to have someone whose REAL. i dont have to worry about him going and me going to be there so he doesnt stray. i know he wont cheat or just up and leave. he always says forever and i correct him with the statement until you get bored with me, and he always says never.. anyways, i dont know the real reason of this post.. maybe im just worried people are rushing into having made permanent before they are ready too. if its meant to be it will happen.. why rush the inevitable? |